Bait and Switch:
First they will tell you that alcoholism is not a moral
stigma, and then they will tell you that it is.
As a come-on, to get us to join, A.A. said that we were innocent,
that alcoholism is a hereditary disease and that we couldn't help
it — "we were powerless over alcohol" — and we were
spared from all feelings of guilt. The Big Book said,
" I was a sick person. I was suffering from an actual disease that
had a name and symptoms like diabetes or cancer or TB — and a disease
was respectable, not a moral stigma!"
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, Marty Mann, Women Suffer Too, page 227.
And, likewise:
It helped me a lot to become convinced that alcoholism was a disease, not
a moral issue; that I had been drinking as a result of a compulsion,
even though I had not been aware of the compulsion at the time;
and that sobriety was not a matter of will power.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, Doctor, Alcoholic, Addict, page 448.
And the web site of the NCADD, an A.A. front group, brags:
The National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence fights the stigma
and the disease of alcoholism and other drug addictions.
But then, after we have joined A.A. and worked a few Steps, we suddenly find A.A. making us feel
horribly guilty, having to confess to our sponsors, in Steps Four and Five,
everything we ever did wrong in our entire lives:
"the exact nature of our wrongs":
Step 4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
Step 5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
Whoops! Wow. "Moral inventory" and "our wrongs"? What happened to "not a moral stigma"?
For that matter, if it isn't a moral stigma, why do all of the alcoholics
have to be "anonymous", and hide their real names?
And if it isn't a moral stigma, why do those people who have
abstained from drinking for years have all of the status?
Why is someone with 20 years of Time considered wiser and more holy
than someone who relapses regularly?
Because alcoholism is a moral stigma, of course. And failure to quit drinking is
considered a moral shortcoming and a "defect of character".
A woman who has overcome breast cancer is not considered more moral
than one who is still battling it (just luckier),
and a man who is still battling
prostate cancer is not considered less moral than someone who has
overcome it. But an alcoholic who is still getting drunk all of the
time is most assuredly considered less holy, less moral, and less wise
than someone who has abstained for years.
Of course it's a moral stigma.
The Australian A.A. magazine printed this "joke":
I was lunching outside with my new co-workers, including the man who'd hired me,
when one of them asked, "What does that symbol with the triangle in the circle
on your bike mean?"
Caught by surprise, I panicked, and then replied, "I'm half Jewish."
It worked.
AA Reviver, April 2005, page 34.
(So much for Alcoholics Anonymous being a life-style of "rigorous honesty".)
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Bait and Switch:
First they say that they want to reduce the stigma of alcoholism,
and then they work to increase it.
First, Alcoholics Anonymous claims that it wants to reduce the stigma
of alcoholism — "It's a disease, not a moral shortcoming."
The web site of the National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence
(an A.A. front group) declares:
"NCADD fights the stigma and the disease of alcoholism and other drug addictions."
But then comes the switch, where newcomers to Alcoholics Anonymous gradually
learn that Bill Wilson really considered alcoholism to be a disgusting sin that was
actually caused by 'self and selfishness
and self-seeking and pride and trying to get your own way all of the time',
and the only cure for alcoholism is to get down on your
knees and confess all of your sins.
And then the newcomer will learn that alcoholics are all dishonest and weak-willed
and "thinking alcoholically" and "in denial", and on and on.
See the web page
"The Us Stupid Drunks Conspiracy"
for much more on how A.A. shames alcoholics and constantly puts them down with an extremely negative stereotype.
Promoters of A.A. actually declare that you should not tell the truth about
"alcoholism" to alcoholics,
because those stupid weak-willed fools just can't handle the truth.
You will kill them. They say that,
"You are doing a great disservice
to those who are seeking sobriety."
When the Rand Corporation released a study that found that half of the recovered alcoholics did it
by tapering off into controlled drinking rather than by absolute abstinence,
the A.A. true believers went ballistic and declared that the
authors of the study were killing alcoholics by "giving them an excuse to drink."
See the story here.
A more reasonable person, Morris Chafetz, responded,
"The paternalistic attempt to
protect alcoholics from themselves by suppressing the
study's conclusions is a gesture of profound contempt that
only increases the social stigma alcoholics have experienced
for far too long."
Alternatives for the Problem Drinker: A.A. Is Not The Only
Way, Ariel Winters, 1978, page 33.
Bait and Switch:
First they will tell you that an alcoholic is just a good person who
can't control his drinking, but later they will tell you that an alcoholic
is
a disgusting immoral selfish evil creature
who has a "spiritual disease".
By now the newcomer has probably arrived at the following conclusions:
that his character defects, representing instincts gone astray, have
been the primary cause of his drinking and his failure at life...
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
William G. Wilson, page 50.
Alcoholics especially should be able to see that instinct run wild in
themselves is the underlying cause of their destructive drinking.
... This perverse soul-sickness is not pleasant to look upon.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
William G. Wilson, page 44.
Whatever our protestations, are not most of us concerned with ourselves,
our resentments, or our self-pity?
Selfishness — self-centeredness! That, we think, is the root
of our troubles. Driven by a hundred forms of fear, self-delusion,
self-seeking, and self-pity, we step on the toes of our fellows
and they retaliate. ...
... the alcoholic is an extreme example of self-will run riot, though
he usually doesn't think so.
Above everything, we alcoholics must
be rid of this selfishness.
We must, or it kills us!
The Big Book, Alcoholics Anonymous, 3rd & 4th Editions,
William G. Wilson, Chapter 5, "How It Works", page 62.
Like most sick people before me, I was implacably selfish,
and chronically self-centered.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, "Stars Don't Fall", page 401.
We want to find exactly how, when, and where, our natural desires
have warped us.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, William Wilson, page 43.
Bait and Switch:
First they tell you that
"There are no 'Musts' in Alcoholics Anonymous, only
suggestions", but then they will tell you that there are
many necessities and musts:
First, you get slogans that say you have great freedom in deciding what you will do for your
own recovery:
- "There are no musts in A.A., only suggestions."
- "There aren't any 'musts' in this program, but there are a lot of 'you betters'."
- "There are no requirements in A.A., only suggestions."
- "The Twelve Steps are but suggestions only."
- "We do have traditions, but remember, there are no rules in A.A."
But then the rap changes to:
- "It is suggested that you Work The Steps, just like how, if you jump out of an airplane with a parachute, it is "suggested" that you pull the ripcord to save your life.
- "Personal Recovery is all about working AA's 12 Steps... continually."
- "You are not required to like it, you're only required to DO it."
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Unless each AA member follows to the best of his ability our suggested Twelve Steps
of recovery, he almost certainly signs his own death warrant.
We must obey certain principles or we die.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, William G. Wilson, page 174.
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Frothy emotional appeal seldom suffices. The message which can interest and hold these alcoholic people
must
have depth and weight. In nearly all cases, their ideals
must
be grounded in a power greater than themselves, if they are to re-create their lives.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William D. Silkworth, The Doctor's Opinion, page XXVI.
Being convinced that an invisible "power greater than themselves" will save them
is not being "grounded", it is being deluded.
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"Yes, I am one of them too; I
must
have this thing."
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson, Chapter 2, There Is A Solution, page 29.
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We are not cured of alcoholism. What we have is a daily reprieve
contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition. Every day
is a day when we
must
carry the vision of God's will into all of our daily activities.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson, Into Action, page 85.
Just where did that "vision" come from? Prayer, meditation,
belladonna,
delirium tremens,
LSD, or
delusions of grandeur?
That question is important, because
you have to be very careful about just where you get those visions from.
Everybody from Charles Manson to Jim Jones to the September 11 airplane
hijackers had a vision of God's will, but few of us approve of, or
agree with, their ideas of God's will.
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Whether the family goes on a spiritual basis or not, the alcoholic
member has to if he would recover. The others must
be convinced of his new status beyond the shadow of a doubt.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson,
The Family Afterward, page 135.
(And the way that the alcoholic in the story convinced his family of his new sober status was
by smoking and drinking
and throwing screaming temper tantrums to get his own way.)
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I must
turn in all things to the Father of Light who presides over us all.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson,
Chapter 1, Bill's Story, page 14.
Be careful here.
Don't be too enamored of light shows.
Remember that the Angel of Light is Lucifer.
Jesus spoke about you having love in your heart,
not shiny lights in your eyes.
Besides which, what happened to "Alcoholics Anonymous requires no
beliefs"?
That's yet another bait and switch trick.
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If we are planning to stop drinking, there
must
be no reservation of any kind, nor any lurking notion that someday we will be immune to alcohol.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson, More About Alcoholism, Chapter 3, page 62.
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But after a while we had to face the fact that we
must
find a spiritual basis of life or else.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson,
Chapter 4, We Agnostics, page 44.
You MUST do it the A.A. way, or else you will die.
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Above everything, we alcoholics must
be rid of this selfishness.
We must, or it kills us!
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson, How It Works, Chapter 5, page 62.
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We saw that these resentments must
be mastered, but how? We could not wish them away any more than alcohol.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson, How It Works, Chapter 5, page 66.
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Whatever our ideal turns out to be, we must
be willing to grow
toward it. We must
be willing to make amends where we have done
harm, provided that we do not bring about still more harm in so doing.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson, Chapter 5, How It Works, page 69.
You MUST do Steps 8 and 9, and make amends.
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We must
be entirely honest with somebody if we expect to live
long or happily in this world.
Rightly and naturally, we think well before we choose the person
or persons with whom to take this intimate and confidential step.
Those of us belonging to a religious denomination which requires
confession must,
and of course, will want to go to the properly
appointed authority whose duty it is to receive it.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson, Chapter 6, Into Action, pages 73-74.
You MUST do Step 5, and confess everything to somebody else, and
wallow in guilt and self-contempt.
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We must
lose our fear of creditors no matter how far we have
to go, for we are liable to drink if we are afraid to face them.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson,
Chapter 6, Into Action, page 78.
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To some extent we have become God-conscious. We have begun to develop
this vital sixth sense. But we must
go further and that means more action.
Step Eleven suggests prayer and meditation. ...
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson,
Chapter 6, Into Action, page 85.
Yes, you MUST pray and meditate until you hallucinate, and hear
voices in your head, and start talking to dead people,
like Bill Wilson did.
(Really, no joke.)
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To be vital, faith must
be accompanied by self sacrifice and
unselfish, constructive action.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson,
Chapter 7, Working With Others, page 93.
Yes, you MUST go recruiting yet again...
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If your man accepts your offer, it should be pointed out that
physical treatment is but a small part of the picture. Though
you are providing him with the best possible medical attention,
he should understand that he
must
undergo a change of heart. To get over drinking will require a
transformation of thought and attitude.
We all had to place
recovery above everything, for without recovery we would have
lost both home and business.
The Big Book, 3rd edition,
Henry "Hank" Parkhurst,
Chapter 10, To Employers, page 143.
Yes, Alcoholics Anonymous MUST come before everything else,
even work, wife, and family.
(But it didn't do the Big Book co-author Henry Parkhurst any good;
he relapsed and died drunk too.)
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"I decided I must
place this program above everything else, even my family, because if I
did not maintain my sobriety I would lose my family anyway."
The Big Book, 3rd Edition — Chapter B10, He Sold Himself Short, page 293.
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My friend had emphasized the absolute necessity
of demonstrating
these principles in all my affairs.
Particularly was it imperative
to work with others as he had worked with me.
Faith without works was dead, he said.
And how appallingly true for the alcoholic!
For if an alcoholic failed to perfect and enlarge his spiritual life
through work and self-sacrifice for others, he could not survive the
certain trials and low spots ahead. If he did not work, he would surely
drink again, and if he drank, he would surely die.
Then faith would be dead indeed. With us it is just like that.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson,
Chapter 1, Bill's Story, pages 14-15.
You ABSOLUTELY MUST go
recruiting for Alcoholics Anonymous,
and bring the cult some new pigeons and babies, or else you will die.
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And, last but certainly not least, of course you MUST
work the Twelve Steps, or else you are
signing your own death warrant...
But wait! There is even more, much more, in the Big Book:
- Page 14, paragraph 2: "I must turn in all things to the Father of Light who presides over us all."
- Page 33, paragraph 3: "If we are planning to stop drinking, there must be no reservation of any kind"
- Page 43, paragraph 4: "His defense must come from a Higher Power."
- Page 44, paragraph 3: "we had to face the fact that we must find a spiritual basis of life — or else."
- Page 62, paragraph 3: "Above everything, we alcoholics must be rid of this selfishness. We must, or it kills us!"
- Page 66, paragraph 4: "We saw that these resentments must be mastered"
- Page 69, paragraph 4: "We must be willing to make amends where we have done harm"
- Page 69, paragraph 4: "Whatever our ideal turns out to be, we must be willing to grow toward it."
- Page 73, paragraph 5: "We must be entirely honest with somebody if we expect to live long or happily in this world."
- Page 74, paragraph 1: "Those of us belonging to a religious denomination which requires confession must, and of course, will want to go to the properly appointed authority whose duty it is to receive it."
- Page 74, paragraph 2: "The rule is we must be hard on ourself, but always considerate of others."
- Page 75, paragraph 1: "But we must not use this as a mere excuse to postpone."
- Page 78, paragraph 3: "We must lose our fear of creditors no matter how far we have to go, for we are liable to drink if we are afraid to face them."
- Page 79, paragraph 2: "We must not shrink at anything."
- Page 80, paragraph 1: "If we have obtained permission, have consulted with others, asked God to help and the drastic step is indicated we must not shrink."
- Page 82, paragraph 3: "Certainly he must keep sober, for there will be no home if he doesn't."
- Page 83, paragraph 1: "Yes, there is a long period of reconstruction ahead. We must take the lead."
- Page 83, paragraph 2: "We must remember that ten or twenty years of drunkenness would make a skeptic out of anyone."
- Page 85, paragraph 2: "Every day is a day when we must carry the vision of God's will into all of our activities."
- Page 85, paragraph 2: "These are thoughts which must go with us constantly."
- Page 85, paragraph 3: "But we must go further and that means more action."
- Page 86, paragraph 2: "But we must be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflection, for that would diminish our usefulness to others."
- Page 89, paragraph 2: "To watch people recover, to see them help others, to watch loneliness vanish, to see a fellowship grow up about you, to have a host of friends — this is an experience you must not miss."
- Page 93, paragraph 3: "To be vital, faith must be accompanied by self sacrifice and unselfish, constructive action."
- Page 95, paragraph 3: "he must decide for himself whether he wants to go on"
- Page 95, paragraph 3: "If he is to find God, the desire must come from within."
- Page 99, paragraph 1: "it must be done if any results are to be expected."
- Page 99, paragraph 2: "we must try to repair the damage immediately lest we pay the penalty by a spree."
- Page 99, paragraph 3: "it must be on a better basis, since the former did not work."
- Page 120, paragraph 2: "he must redouble his spiritual activities if he expects to survive."
- Page 130, paragraph 2: "that is where our work must be done."
- Page 135, paragraph 1: "Whether the family goes on a spiritual basis or not, the alcoholic member has to if he would recover. The others must be convinced of his new status beyond the shadow of a doubt."
- Page 143, paragraph 2: "he should understand that he must undergo a change of heart"
- Page 144, paragraph 3: "The man must decide for himself."
- Page 146, paragraph 4: "For he knows he must be honest if he would live at all."
- Page 152, paragraph 2: "I know I must get along without liquor, but how can I?"
- Page 156, paragraph 3: "Both saw that they must keep spiritually active. "
- Page 159, paragraph 3: "Though they knew they must help other alcoholics if they would remain sober, that motive became secondary."
- And then, best of all, the frosting on the cake is this lesson in
deceptive recruiting:
Page 144, paragraph 3: "When the man is presented with this volume it is best that no one tell him he must abide by its suggestions."
Right.
"We absolutely must abide by all of these 'spiritual' rules, or else alcohol will kill us, but don't tell the new guy that. Tell him that there aren't any musts
in this program, only suggestions."
Bait and Switch:
First, they tell you that "You must admit that you have a problem", but then that
gets changed into "You must admit that you are powerless and you have
a disease from which you can never recover."
In addition, you must admit that you are an "alcoholic", which means that you
are selfish and dishonest and manipulative, and cannot ever be fixed, and your
only hope of avoiding Hell is to "surrender" to a "Higher Power"
who can be anything from a "god" to a stone idol or a bedpan or a doorknob,
and follow his orders for the rest of your life.
That is quite a change from just admitting that you have a problem.
Bait and Switch:
First it isn't political, and then it is.
They start off by telling you that Alcoholics Anonymous has no politics —
A.A. has no opinion on "outside issues", and will not concern itself with
controversies outside of the realm of recovery.
But the A.A. program is actually very political, because it
removes people from the political sphere, and turns them into political
eunuchs. It also makes them into reactionaries. People are taught to blame
themselves for everything, and to never consider how their problems
may have been caused by or at least exacerbated by societal problems.
A.A. members then likewise blame other alcoholics for their own troubles,
imagining that "character defects" and "moral shortcomings"
are the cause of all of the other alcoholics' problems.
The Twelve Steps and the rest of Bill Wilson's religious teachings
talk solely about how alcoholism is the fault of the
individual. The A.A. answer is solely that,
"You are bad. You are selfish."
They never consider or even mention the influence of
any external contributing factors like poverty,
racial discrimination, social injustice, war, unemployment,
bad environments, broken families, sickness and pain, or past child abuse.
They never consider that alcoholics may have been the victims
of crimes, rather than the perpetrators of crimes.
In addition, Alcoholics Anonymous and its other 12-Step brethren
basically promote a fascist philosophy —
But the politics of A.A. is never mentioned — its very existence is denied.
That makes it difficult to discuss and challenge. As Elayne Rapping
pointed out,
As in any hegemonic discourse or ritual, the absence of apparent ideology
is itself the most powerful kind of ideology, since it can never be
acknowledged or questioned. The political implications of this kind
of thinking, this kind of process, are apparent and depressing. ...
This reactionary tendency of AA is further bolstered by its tendency to exclude
contact with all "outsiders" who may indeed have other ideas about
what has caused a member's suffering and what might be done to assuage it.
One of the characteristics of cults described by
Arthur Deikman (1990) is a
tendency to "devalue outsiders" and assume "an attitude of
righteousness" about one's own customs and beliefs. In AA and (to a lesser
degree) other recovery groups, this takes the form of labeling as "in denial"
those who question basic tenets.
David Forbes, for example, in a fairly sympathetic analysis by a former
participant, reports on his discomfort at "the conformist norm
of the language" and the prohibition against the kind of
"political and theoretical categories and constructs"
he normally used to speak about his life, "especially class and
patriarchy." And while he insists that such concerns could be
discussed in the socializing time that generally follows meetings,
he admits that he "did not find many people who were interested
in doing so" (Forbes 1994, p. 244). Nor did I.
I did indeed hear a member, a young man, express discomfort about this
language in a social gathering after a meeting. He was told by an
"old-timer" that he would "get over" his "denial"
when he had successfully managed to "do the First Step" and
make contact with his own Higher Power. The young man never broached
the subject again to my knowledge, but he soon stopped attending
meetings.
Those who find the groups most helpful, on the other hand, tend to
incorporate the religious and social underpinnings of the movement
more and more automatically, internalizing them as unquestioned truths.
I heard so many, many people in so many, many groups make statements
like this one by a young woman in an OA meeting:
"Now that I've learned to trust my Higher Power, I realize
that there is joy everywhere and a purpose to everything.
Even when I pass by the homeless people who used to make me feel
so sad and upset with this society I can feel peace and trust in
God's love. There is glory everywhere, I now realize."
Forbes, David. 1994. False Fixes. Albany: SUNY Press.
The Culture Of Recovery; Making Sense of the Self-Help Movement in
Women's Lives, Elayne Rapping, pages 100-101.
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Indeed. Bill Wilson taught that we must accept anything
as God's will, and not be upset or disturbed by it:
It is a spiritual axiom that every time we are disturbed, no
matter what the cause, there is something wrong with us.
If somebody hurts us and we are sore, we are in the wrong also.
But are there no exceptions to this rule? What about
"justifiable" anger? If somebody cheats us, aren't
we entitled to be mad? Can't we be properly angry with self-righteous
folk? For us in A.A. these are dangerous exceptions.
We have found that justified anger ought to be left to those
better qualified to handle it.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, William G. Wilson, page 90.
We can't be angry? We must always be passive doormats,
and never get angry, no matter what anybody else does to us?
(That will sure kill any social activism or attempts to fix the world.)
Only "normal" people can handle righteous anger or
resentment and fight back when harmed, and we cannot, because we
are just stupid alcoholics? Well, the Big Book says,
"Yes":
And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today.
When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing,
or situation — some fact of my life — unacceptable to me,
and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing,
or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this
moment. Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in God's world by mistake.
The A.A. Big Book, Alcoholics Anonymous,
3rd Edition, Doctor, Alcoholic, Addict, page 449.
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So Dr. Martin Luther King was wrong when he got disturbed by the injustices
that Blacks suffered?
Those Negroes should have been Serene and Spiritual,
and just accepted life in the back of the bus and working for substandard wages
because it's the Will of God?
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Women shouldn't have gotten the vote; they should have just accepted their lot
in life and stayed in their place in the kitchen?
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We should ignore the poor and the homeless, and the starving children
in foreign countries, because God obviously wants them to be that way?
"Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in God's world by mistake?"
It's all God's plan?
- Is the world-wide epidemic of AIDS all God's plan too?
Should we just ignore the problem because it's not a mistake — it's all the Will of God?
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And if a wife is "disturbed" by her husband's
excessive drinking, does that prove that she is sick too,
like Al-Anon says?
Apparently so.
Elayne Rapping described the process of depoliticization very well.
For her book, she observed
many 12-Step groups, including A.A., S.A. (Sex Addicts Anonymous), O.A.
(Overeaters Anonymous), and CODA (Codependents Anonymous),
and then she told the story of one young woman who had found happiness in O.A.:
Unfortunately, this rare success story scored a point for God not women.
As this woman became more and more committed to her program, she also
became more and more oblivious to social injustice and more and more
smug in her certainty that her Higher Power was responsible for all her new
joy in life while the miseries of others were also firmly in His hands and so,
somehow, serving His purpose. This was the young woman who learned to disregard
the homeless who had previously so bothered her because her new faith in God
assured her that all — even their misery — was right with the world.
In every case in which I saw an OA member dramatically
"recover," she became radically religious in ways I found disturbing.
The women who worked their programs as effectively as the men in AA and SA
became as religious and spiritual in their worldviews and activities as these
men had become. Only this time much more was lost than was gained, in social
terms. To a woman, their recovery meant that spirituality became their entire
lives, altering partners, professions, social activities, and — not surprisingly —
social and political beliefs in alarmingly reactionary ways.
... And their binges, their urges to binge, their purges and fasts, were all
explained in this depoliticized, indeed politically regressive, worldview.
The Culture Of Recovery; Making Sense of the Self-Help Movement in
Women's Lives, Elayne Rapping, pages 121-122.
That leads to the next item:
Bait and Switch:
First, Bill Wilson declared that
the A.A. religious dogma was just the perennial Christian philosophy,
"common to all denominations",
but then it isn't Christian at all. It's a strange kind of
Calvinist
social Darwinism that believes in pre-destination.
In the final analysis, Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, and
their other 12-Step kin have the same social philosophy as
Frank Buchman's Oxford Group cult.
Buchman declared that
that all social problems, including alcoholism and drug addiction,
are caused by individual sin, and that the answer to all such social
problems was to get "changed" into a group member, and then
get down on your knees and start confessing your sins.
So you can forget about any social activism, human rights campaigns,
or saving the whales. That is actually a very political attitude —
a philosophy of passivity and inactivity.
As the band Rush sings (in the song Free Will),
"If you choose not to decide,
you still have made a choice.
... I will choose free will."
Such a social philosophy also smacks of Social Darwinism. It is the alcoholics'
own fault if they won't get religion and get down on their knees and confess their sins.
They are just being
"constitutionally dishonest
with themselves " — "they seem to have been born that way" —
they are just spiritually inferior (and genetically inferior), and you shouldn't worry about them.
The more honest and spiritual ones will survive, and the inferior specimens will die...
Who needs those disgusting Untermenschen anyway?
The A.A. slogan is,
"Some must die so that others may live."
It must be the will of God:
Those who do not recover are ... men and women who are constitutionally
incapable of being honest with themselves.
They are not at fault; they seem to have been born that way.
The Big Book, 3rd and 4th Edition, page 58.
So, as God selects which sperm cell hits the egg, God observes that this baby
is going to be born an alcoholic, and constitutionally dishonest with himself too.
This one is doomed to die drunk in a gutter. He can't help it — he was
born that way. His fate is inevitable and unavoidable.
So how is that a Christian philosophy?
(It isn't. It isn't Christian at all.)
It is also reminiscent of Heinrich Himmler's ideas of bad genes. The Nazis were
big on eugenics, and sterilized and euthenized (with gas chambers) many thousands
of people whom they regarded as "genetically defective". Alcoholism was
considered to be one of the genetic defects that warranted sterilization or death.
Bait and Switch:
First, no one is entitled to speak for A.A., but
then some special privileged people are entitled to speak for A.A.
A standard A.A. slogan is that "No one is entitled to speak for A.A.".
But people speak for A.A. all of the time. A.A. promoters and pundits routinely
go on radio and TV, and write articles for newspapers and magazines and the Internet,
praising A.A., and nobody criticizes them for "speaking for A.A.".
One standard way of claiming the privilege of speaking for A.A. is to announce one's
sober time.
An A.A. old-timer stands up and brags about himself like this:
"Hello. My name is Joe, and by the Grace of God and Alcoholics
Anonymous, I haven't taken a drink in 15 years."
Thus, he has established his credentials, and now he is entitled to speak with authority
about Alcoholics Anonymous.
In general, if somebody has something positive to say about Alcoholics Anonymous,
then he is entitled to speak. It's quite all right. But if someone has something negative
to say about A.A., then he is not entitled to speak for A.A.
Bait and Switch:
Progressive Terminology:
First, they tell you to do an honest, complete, "moral inventory",
and then they tell you to only talk about your "wrongs" and
"character defects" and "moral shortcomings".
While we are busy confessing all of our sins, note the funny progressive
change in the terminology of the Steps:
- 4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of
ourselves.
- 5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being
the exact nature of our wrongs.
- 6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of
character.
- 7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
In Step Four, we start off doing a general-purpose moral inventory, which
sounds like we should honestly list both the good and the bad stuff
— our weaknesses and our strengths — but
- in
Step Five we only "admit" (confess) our
"wrongs";
- and in Step Six those
"wrongs" suddenly get changed
into defective parts of ourselves — our
"defects of character",
- and in Step Seven, they are again our defects, our
moral "shortcomings".
There is a big difference between making a stupid mistake and having a
defective character. Again, these steps are just inducing more feelings of guilt,
self-doubt, and inadequacy by declaring that we are inherently defective and
flawed — so terribly flawed that only God can remove the defects.
Such progressive terminology also pushes
Progressive Commitments,
which is another standard cult characteristic.
In the beginning, you only agreed to conduct an accurate and honest self-examination.
But without anyone asking your permission, Bill Wilson twisted it into
a guilt-inducing confession session.
Likewise, there is a progressive change in attitude as we go through the Steps,
from standing tall to grovelling on our knees.
In the beginning, we just arrogantly presume that God will give us the goodies
— will fix our minds and restore us to sanity and take care of our wills and our lives for us
in Steps 2 and 3 —
for no particular reason other than that we shoved our broken minds and lives at Him,
and expected Him to repair them for us.
(Which is in fact
a heretical religious doctrine.
Nowhere in the Bible does it say that God has to do His side of that deal.)
But by Step Seven, we have to humbly beg God to help us:
- 2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could
restore us to sanity.
(We just presume that He will do it, without even asking Him what He wants to do.)
- 3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the
care of God as we understood Him.
(We just presume that God will take care of us from now on, just because we
want Him to solve all of our problems for us.)
- 7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
(The original version of Step Seven that Bill Wilson wrote said,
"Humbly, on our knees, asked Him to remove our shortcomings.")
Bait and Switch: First, ego-mania, and then abject humility.
First, they give you happiness, and then they give you sadness.
- First, in Steps Two and Three, you are supposed
to believe that you are so special and so favored that God is going to
wait on you hand and foot, take care of you,
solve all of your problems
for you, restore you to sanity,
take away all of
your difficulties,
take away your cravings for alcohol, and make the drink problem
just disappear
on a daily basis.
- Then, when you have gotten a sufficiently
fat head from that, you must grovel and wallow in guilt
in Steps Four through Ten,
listing and confessing your every sin, defect, wrong, and moral shortcoming,
and everybody you ever harmed or offended,
until you have no self-respect or self-confidence left,
and you feel thoroughly rotten.
- Then Step Ten tells you to repeat that routine endlessly, and promptly admit whenever you are wrong.
That sounds like a good formula for neurosis.
Incidentally, that pattern of behavior is called "battering".
It is the same routine as what battered wives suffer through.
First, their husbands are friendly and loving, but then they turn against their
wives and threaten and terrorize and beat them.
Just when the wives are ready to leave them, the battering
husbands revert to being loving and reassuring, telling the wives that
things will be better in the future and that they didn't really mean it
and they love them. Then, when the wives stay, the
husbands revert to attacking and beating them again. Eventually,
the battered wives are so paralyzed by confusion and fear
that they don't know if they are coming or going.
A.A. does the same thing to its victims. There is a constant alternation
between
-
"God loves you and is taking care of you"
and
-
"God is disgusted with you for your many moral shortcomings and
defects of character. You are selfish and evil and self-seeking and manipulative
and dishonest.
You can hardly make amends even if you try for the rest of your life."
(Big Book, page 127.)
Bait and Switch: First, ego-destruction and
then bombastic delusions of grandeur.
This item is just the reverse of the last one:
-
First, your ego is crushed, your self-respect is destroyed by constant confessions of bad motives
and wrong-doing and wrong-thinking, and you must abandon all "selfishness"
and "self-seeking".
You must reduce your self-respect and feelings of self-worth to
less than nothing.
- Then, in Step Eleven, you suddenly discover that you are so big and
so good that you are a secret agent for God — that your true mission
in life is to get on the psychic two-way radio and spend the rest of your
days constantly talking to God and "Seeking and Doing the Will
of God", as if God really needs you:
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our
conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only
for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
Why, it's just like Mission Impossible:
"Your mission, Mr. Phelps, should you choose to accept it, is
to Seek and Do the Will of God. This mission is extremely important.
Should you fail, it is unlikely that God will ever recover from the shock.
As usual, should you or any of your team be captured, the Secretary will
disavow any knowledge of your existence.
This message will self-destruct in 5 seconds."
Bait and Switch: Expect a great religious or
spiritual experience, and then expect nothing.
Throughout the first 164 pages of the Big Book, Bill Wilson
wrote about
the fantastic
religious or spiritual experiences that members could expect to have
after they had practiced the Twelve Steps enough:
... you may be suffering from an illness which only a spiritual experience
will conquer.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition,
Chapter 4, We Agnostics, page 44.
... we have decided to go to any lengths to find a spiritual experience...
The Big Book, 3rd Edition,
Chapter 6, Into Action, page 79.
... with the alcoholic, whose hope is the maintenance and growth
of a spiritual experience, this business of resentment is
infinitely grave.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition,
Chapter 5, How It Works,
page 66.
We may have had certain spiritual beliefs, but now we begin
to have a spiritual experience.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition,
Chapter 6, Into Action, page 75.
He had begun to have a spiritual experience.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition,
Chapter 11, A Vision For You, page 158.
We have found much of heaven and we have been rocketed into a fourth dimension
of existence of which we had not even dreamed.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson,
chapter 2, There Is A Solution, page 25.
[To Wives:] Your husband will be the first to say it was your devotion
and care which brought him to the point where he could have a spiritual
experience.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition,
Chapter 8, To Wives,
pages 118-119.
Assume on the other hand that father has, at the outset, a
stirring spiritual experience. Overnight, as it were, he is a different
man. He becomes a religious enthusiast. He is unable to focus on anything
else. ...
There is talk about spiritual matters morning, noon and night.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, page 127.
We have found nothing incompatible between a powerful spiritual
experience and a life of sane and happy usefulness.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, page 130.
"The
Promises" are another example of Bill's grand claims of
great "sudden revelations":
If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we
will be amazed before we are halfway through.
We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness.
... We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know
peace. ... Our whole attitude and outlook upon life
will change. ... We will suddenly realize that God is
doing for us what we could not do for ourselves.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition,
Into Action, pages 83-84.
Bill Wilson had
a fantastic
vision or hallucination or "religious experience" or
"spiritual experience"
while he was in the hospital, detoxing from alcohol and tripping on
belladonna and henbane and morphine and a bunch of other drugs.
Then he claimed that his copy of the Oxford Group practices —
the Twelve Steps — would induce such an experience or vision in other
people without the drugs. The original version of Step Twelve, as
published in the early printings of the Big Book, began:
Having had a spiritual experience as the result of this course of action...
But after publication of the first edition of the Big Book,
A.A. members all over the country complained that
"The Big Experience" wasn't happening for them.
Nobody got wonderful religious or spiritual experiences, or saw God, as a result of
doing Bill's 12 steps...
So Bill Wilson changed the "spiritual experience" term in Step Twelve to
"spiritual awakening".
Now Step Twelve begins,
"Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps..."
"Spiritual awakening"? That is so vague that it can mean just about anything.
Even the "spiritual experience" phrase
itself had already been the result of such rewording —
William James'
book was titled The Varieties of Religious Experience, and that's
what Bill Wilson talked about in the beginning, and that's what Bill Wilson
sought to induce in other people — an overwhelming dramatic religious experience.
Wilson wanted to induce religious experiences that were so powerful and stirring
that they would instantly transform people's lives, and
make them quit drinking forever.
But the word "religious" was a problem, remember —
Bill Wilson didn't want to offend the Catholic Church. A Catholic priest
reminded Bill that inducing religious experiences was The Church's job, not Bill's.
So "religious experience" became "spiritual
experience"
which then got toned down to just a "spiritual awakening."
Then Bill added an appendix to the second and third editions of the Big Book,
"Appendix II,
Spiritual Experience",
where he explained that members should not expect
"sudden and spectacular upheavals"
or expect to "acquire an immediate and overwhelming
'God-consciousness' followed at once by a vast change in feeling
and outlook", like Bill Wilson said that he had gotten
(from
hallucinogenic drugs) and had written
about at length in the front section of the Big Book.
No, Bill said, members should not really expect any such sudden
or dramatic results;
rather, they should just settle for small, slow, gradual changes,
like an "educational experience", or like the hang-over
slowly clearing, and then call that a "spiritual experience."
So the wonderful dramatic "electric" experiences that Bill Wilson wrote
about in the front of the Big Book aren't going to happen for you,
after all:
The terms "spiritual experience" and
"spiritual awakening" are used many times in this book
which, upon careful reading, shows that
the personality change sufficient to bring about
recovery from alcoholism has manifested itself among us in many
different forms.
Yet it is true that our first printing gave many readers the
impression that
these personality changes, or
religious experiences,
must be in the nature of sudden and spectacular upheavals.
Happily for everyone, this conclusion is erroneous.
... Most of our experiences are what the psychologist William James
[in his book The Varieties of Religious Experience]
calls
the "educational variety"
because they develop slowly over a period of time.
Quite often friends of the newcomer
are aware of the difference long before he is himself.
He finally realizes that he has undergone a profound alteration in
his reaction to life; that such a change could hardly have been
brought about by himself alone.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson, page 569.
No, the changes haven't been "brought about by himself alone."
The good changes are caused by quitting drinking. The bad changes,
the ones he isn't supposed to be aware of until it is too late,
are caused by mind-control techniques and indoctrination in cult
religion.
And don't you love the part about how
you won't be aware of what "profound alterations"
they are doing to your mind until much later? Your friends can see it, but
you can't.
Both
Prof. Margaret Thaler Singer and Dr. Edgar H. Schein listed that as one of the
key components of an effective brainwashing or thought-control program:
"Keep them unaware that there is an agenda to change them, and unaware
of how they are being changed, step by step." — Singer.
"Keep the person unaware of what is going on and the changes taking place." —
Schein.
Also note that Bill Wilson plainly stated that the goal is to induce
religious experiences sufficiently powerful to cause
dramatic and permanent personality changes. That contradicts the slogan that
"It's spiritual, not religious."
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- So, the
- "religious experience" got reduced to a
- "spiritual experience", which got reduced to a
- "spiritual awakening", which got reduced to an
- "educational experience".
- Just about anything will qualify as your "educational experience",
or your "spiritual awakening".
(Heck, if I want an educational experience, I can watch Public Television,
or read a good book.)
- So, if your head is clearer now than it was when you were drunk,
then, by golly, you have already had a "spiritual awakening"
without even noticing it.
Bill Wilson did not get his "spiritual experience"
from doing the Twelve Steps and
confessing all of his sins and wallowing in guilt.
Bill actually got his
"electric results",
and saw God, while detoxing in a hospital and tripping on
a combination of alcohol withdrawal,
delirium tremens, and
a hallucinogenic drug cocktail
that contained belladonna, henbane, morphine, strychnine, and a bunch of other things.
But Bill didn't bother to mention that small detail in the Big Book...
What Bill did mention was that, the next day, one of his friends, either
Ebby Thacher or Rowland Hazard,
gave him the book The Varieties of Religious Experience by
William James, and Bill read
about other people having had similar religious experiences when they
were really down, sick, in despair, and dying. (Note: James' book was about
religious experiences, not "spiritual" experiences.)
From reading that book,
Bill Wilson came to believe that he had had a religious experience,
and that
"deflating
peoples' egos" and crushing them into
hopelessness
would duplicate the religious or "spiritual"
experience in them without the drugs.
It didn't work. It still doesn't work. It just makes some A.A. members neurotic,
bitter and frustrated, while they wait forever for "The Miracle" to happen.
It also makes some members delusional, where they mindlessly, frivolously, proclaim that
every little
sentimental rush or emotional reaction that they get is a big 'spiritual' experience...
It even makes some members suicidal.
In a way, Bill Wilson was ahead of his time. In the nineteen-sixties
and seventies there were many phony gurus who came here from foreign
countries — most often from India — and told the kids that they
had some special yoga or chanting or meditation or something that
would duplicate the LSD religious or spiritual experience, without
the drugs.
They cheated the kids out of a lot of money before the kids wised up.
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That same bait-and-switch stunt is still being pulled on new A.A.
members today. Initially, they are led to believe that they
will experience revolutionary changes in their lives,
and will have wonderful dramatic religious or spiritual experiences just
like Bill Wilson described in the Big Book, and also described later on in
his second book Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions.
The slogan is,
"Don't leave five minutes before the Miracle!"
So you can't ever leave, or you will miss The Big Experience
that might have happened five minutes later.
(No Exit is
another standard cult characteristic.)
Only later are the newcomers told that they should
consider any small improvements that have happened in their lives to be
a "Miracle" and
a big "spiritual awakening".
"Well, you aren't drinking any more, are you? Isn't that a
Miracle?"
You aren't supposed to answer:
"A Miracle? No, I don't think so. It looks a lot like
simple common sense — I just got sick and tired of being
sick and tired, so I finally got my act together and quit
doing it. I thank God for my sobriety, but I wouldn't
call it a 'Miracle'. A miracle is when somebody
uses supernatural powers to break the laws of physics.
No such powers were used here, and no such laws were broken.
I just quit drinking alcohol."
Bait and Switch: First, "unconditional love"
and then hateful contempt.
A.A. promises the newcomer
unconditional love, trust, and acceptance.
The slogan is, "Let us love you until you
can love yourself."
But after they have sucked you in, they will blast you with contempt
and loathing:
-
They will tell you that you have all of
the
disgusting defects of a standard alcoholic.
-
They will tell you that your thinking is alcoholic,
that you are diseased and in denial.
-
They will tell you that
you
are selfish and care about no one but yourself,
that you have a sick, fat ego that thinks it is the center of the
Universe, and thinks that it is too big and too good to need God.
-
They will tell you that any disagreement you have with A.A. or the
program just proves how sick you are.
-
The crabby, mean-tempered old-timer
who smacks the newcomers with
slogans and condescending put-downs is a regular fixture at many
meetings, and his bad-tempered misbehavior is excused as tough love.
If you really want to see the unconditional love and acceptance
disappear fast, just try telling them the truth about A.A., Bill
Wilson's insanity, and the real cult religion roots of the Twelve Steps.
They also have contempt for you on another level: They don't think
you rate the truth, so they won't tell you the truth.
Their attitude is
"The Truth? You can't handle the Truth!",
so they will dole out the truth
"By Teaspoons, Not Buckets", and
only gradually reveal the true nature of A.A. to you.
- They will say that you are just
a stupid beginner with
a diseased mind, and you can't think right, so you should
not be told all of the facts.
- They will pull
deceptive
recruiting stunts on you.
- "There is no use arousing any prejudice he may have against certain
theological terms and conceptions about which he may already be
confused. Don't raise such issues, no matter what your own
convictions are."
(The Big Book, William G. Wilson,
3rd & 4th Editions,
page 93.)
- "They wanted a
psychological book which would lure the reader in; when
he finally arrived among us, there would then be enough time to tip him
off about the spiritual character of our society."
(Alcoholics Anonymous Comes Of Age
(1957), William G. Wilson, page 17.)
- They will answer your honest questions with
thought-stopping clichés:
- "Stop Your Stinking Thinking."
- "Your best thinking got you here."
- "Utilize, Don't Analyze."
- They will deceive you with slogans and standardized answers
to everything.
- "A.A. requires no beliefs."
- "RARELY HAVE we seen someone fail who has thoroughly
followed our path."
- "The program never fails. People just fail the program."
- "A.A. is the best, the time-tested, the proven way to
recover from alcoholism."
- They will hide the real nature of A.A. from you.
- They will quote you Bill Wilson's
grandiose,
bombastic delusional statements, but they won't tell you the truth.
- They will tell you
all kinds of things to keep you coming back,
but they won't tell you the truth.
That's what they really think of you.
Bait and Switch: First, A.A. tells you to
"Think, Think, Think", but later it's "Stop Your
Stinkin' Thinkin'."
In the beginning, people are asked to think about what alcohol
is doing to them, and to make an intelligent decision to do the
smart thing and quit drinking.
Man is supposed to think, and act. He wasn't made to God's image to be an automation.
As Bill Sees It, page 55.
Also see:
Daily Reflections; A Book of Reflections by A.A. members for A.A. members,
Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc., 1990, page 92, April 24.
But gradually, the tone changes to...
"Nobody is ever too dumb to get the program, but some people are too intelligent."
"Utilize, Don't Analyze."
== common A.A. slogans
Bill Wilson actually declared that we must abandon Reason and
logic,
and just have faith in his teachings:
Some of us had already walked far over the Bridge
of Reason toward the desired shore of faith. The outlines and the
promise of the New Land had brought lustre to tired eyes and fresh
courage to flagging spirits.
Friendly hands stretched out in welcome. We were grateful that Reason
had brought
us so far. But somehow, we couldn't quite step ashore.
Perhaps we had been leaning too heavily on Reason that last mile and
did not like to lose our support.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson,
We Agnostics, Page 53.
The object of the Alcoholics Anonymous program was supposed to
be to quit drinking, not to lose our minds, remember?
(And what the heck is "the Bridge of Reason"?)
And then, finally,
Bill Wilson declared
that we were not qualified to even decide what we
would think, or what we would do with our lives:
How persistently we claim the right to
decide all by ourselves just what we shall think and just how we shall
act. ... how well does it actually work?
One good look in the mirror ought to be answer enough for any
alcoholic.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
William G. Wilson, pages 36-37.
Bait and Switch: First, A.A. tells you that
"A.A. requires no beliefs," but then you have to believe
everything they tell you, and have blind faith in the proclamations
of Bill Wilson.
Bill wrote:
Alcoholics Anonymous does not demand that you believe anything.
All of its Twelve Steps are but suggestions.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
William G. Wilson, page 26.
Perhaps you are not quite in sympathy with the approach we suggest.
By no means do we offer it as the last word on this subject...
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson,
page 144.
But later, the Big Book says:
I was beginning to see that I would require implicit faith, like
a small child, if I was going to get anywhere.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, The News Hawk, Page 259.
Yes, Mr. Wilson was really big on blind faith.
Bill felt that being intelligent and thinking logically
was a serious impediment to success in his program:
... we agnostics and atheists chose to believe
that our human intelligence was the last word... Rather vain of us,
wasn't it?
We, who have traveled this dubious path, beg you to lay aside prejudice,
even against organized religion. ...
People of faith have a logical idea of what life is all about.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson,
We Agnostics, page 49.
Here, Bill Wilson first praised logic, to get you agreeing with him,
and then he turned around and attacked logic and declared that his
"present faith" was superior to logic. Bait and Switch:
Logic is great stuff. We liked it. We still like it. It is not by
chance we were given the power to reason, to examine the evidence
of our senses, and to draw conclusions. That is one of man's
magnificent attributes. We agnostically inclined would not feel
satisfied with a proposal which does not lend itself to reasonable
approach and interpretation. Hence we are at pains to tell why
we think our present faith is reasonable, why we think it more
sane and logical to believe, why we say our former thinking was
soft and mushy when we threw up our hands in doubt and said,
"We don't know."
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson, Page 53.
(By the way,
Bill Wilson was
never an agnostic or an atheist.
He was just putting on airs again when he wrote that, pretending to be
a reformed hard-core atheist because it sounded good.)
Bill continued his sermon:
Imagine life without faith!
Were nothing left but pure reason, it wouldn't be life.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson, Page 54.
Actually, life requires survival and reproduction, but it doesn't
require faith in Bill's nonsense. So yes, it would be life.
Bait and Switch:
First, prospective new members are offered a tolerant, open-minded
"spiritual" program,
but then they get narrow-minded demands for belief in
Bill Wilson's teachings.
Chapter Seven
of the Big Book is a training manual for
recruiters. That chapter teaches another bait-and-switch
trick: first, the bait offered to the prospective new member
("prospect") is a promise of complete religious
freedom,
and then the switch comes later, when the new member finds that
he must accept the A.A. beliefs and
discard his own.
Stress the spiritual feature freely. If the man be agnostic or
atheist, make it emphatic that he does not have to agree with
your conception of God.
...
There is no use arousing any prejudice he may have against certain
theological terms and conceptions about which he may
already be confused.
Don't raise such issues, no matter what your own convictions are.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson, Working With Others, page 93.
Why stress "the spiritual feature" freely? Because you
aren't supposed to stress
the religious feature.
Keep on yammering,
"It's spiritual, not religious"
when the prospect says,
"I don't want to join a religion."
The statements:
"make it emphatic that he does not have to agree with
your conception of God"
and
"Don't raise such issues"
are instructing the recruiter to deceive the prospect, to hide the
intense religiosity of Alcoholics Anonymous from him.
In the end, the prospect will have to agree with A.A. about God.
It is impossible to work the Twelve Steps without believing in
the A.A. version of God. But newcomers are not told that up front.
Bill Wilson declared that non-believers were "prejudiced"
and "confused" about theological terms. He didn't
tell the recruiter what to do with an intelligent well-educated
agnostic prospect who was not at all confused about what those
theological terms mean.
Or, for that matter, what do you do with an intelligent well-educated
believer who won't buy Bill Wilson's funny
religious opinions?
I'm sure that even the Pope would disagree with a lot of Bill's theology, because
it's basically heretical nonsense, and at odds
with Christianity.
The Vatican banned
Frank Buchman's Oxford Group cult religion, from which Bill Wilson got all
of his theology, twice.
Again, Wilson taught the missionaries not to alarm prospects by revealing the
real religious agenda of Alcoholics Anonymous:
To some people we need not, and probably should not emphasize the
spiritual feature on our first approach. We might prejudice them.
At the moment we are trying to put our lives in order.
But this is not an end in itself.
Our real purpose
is to fit ourselves to be of maximum service to God...
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson,
Chapter 6, Into Action, pages 76-77.
So the real purpose of Alcoholics Anonymous is to get people to
Seek and Do the Will of God.
Quitting drinking seems to be a secondary goal.
But they don't tell new recruits about that in the beginning.
They just emphasize the need to quit drinking.
Finally, Wilson said of the Big Book,
Its main object is to enable you to find a Power greater than yourself
which will solve your problem. ... [That] means, of
course, that we are going to talk about God.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson,
We Agnostics, page 45.
It may be nit-picking, but it does not say that the goal is to help you
to quit drinking. The goal is to get you to:
- believe in a Higher Power, "that Power, which is God",
(The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson,
We Agnostics, page 46),
- and to get you to follow the dictates of that Higher Power,
(The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson,
Working With Others, page 100),
- Who will then supposedly solve all of your problems for you.
(The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson, pages 42 and 63).
- And remember, "Our real purpose is to fit ourselves
to be of maximum service to God..."
(The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson, Into Action, page 77.)
- Also remember that we must be humble, and "That basic
ingredient
of all humility [is] a desire to seek and do God's will."
(Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, William G. Wilson,
page 72.)