Undoubtedly you and whatever staff you have are highly overworked. Some of that I'm sure is due to budget constraint read about two hours of your on-line sites. I cannot determine who you are or what occurred in the past to promote your feelings, but you do what you must. Unfortunately the blog responses have been deleted. You are probably aware of that. Hope to read more. Much is disturbing never hearing that AA was a cult. How many groups out of hundreds of thousands are like that? Clean house brother. Bruce
Hello Bruce,
Thanks for the letter. Yes, I'm overworked. (There is no "staff", just me.)
For who I am, and what prompted my feelings,
see the list here.
I don't know what blog you are referring to, where my responses were deleted.
My responses get deleted a lot, and so do the responses of other people who
dare to criticize the 12-Step orthodoxy.
Steppers are not very good at tolerating criticism, and they definitely don't
want to hear the truth.
So they erase things that they don't want you to know.
Steppers vulch on Wikipedia, for instance, and anything that they don't like
is editted out in an hour or so.
Yes, it is disturbing to hear that A.A. is a cult. I was very surprised myself.
I started off thinking that A.A. was the biggest and best self-help group in
the USA. It came as a bit of a shock to discover that "it ain't necessarily so".
It was rather disgusting to see that sick people were getting quackery and
superstition from criminals and mentally-ill people, rather than anything resembling good
medical treatment.
Which groups are like that? Well, apparently, a lot. I don't have the entire list,
but you can start with
Mike Quinones' Midtown Group
and
Clancy Imusland's Pacific Group.
And then there are stories about the
Phoenix Young People's A.A.,
and groups in
Minneapolis, and
Bainbridge Island, Washington.
So click on those links to read more about them.
Have a good day now.
== Orange
Date: Thu, May 27, 2010 7:10 pm (answered 31 May 2010) It helps to be a speed reader. Thanks for the updates. You my friend have found a quite unique means of securing "Recovery". Whatever works I always say. I'm probably not the first "sex addict" who has read any orange, but it makes a few of us comfortable in knowing that whatever you do TAKES TIME. Doing anything that lesson the power of the drug that desires to control us is great. Keep it up. Keep looking for other programs. There are dozens of them. Not all are 12-step. Some definitely are religious (not cult), but they don't judge nor hide that fact. We are weal when we try to control our addict on our own...without some knowledge or help or prayer or surrender. Would you agree? I'm in Chicago. Perhaps some day we meet in person. I applaud your work because it keeps you sober. You could not write what you have otherwise. Bruce Y
Hi Bruce,
Thanks for the response. I wish you luck on your journey.
You know, doing this web site isn't really what keeps me sober.
What does it is things like going outside, and feeling the air and sun on my skin,
and inhaling, and my lungs don't hurt. Then I can feel my body move, and it's a healthy
body, with the muscles and tendons moving smoothly (even if the joints are getting a little
old and sore now).
And then, because I am so healthy, I have to move. I can't just sit around, doing nothing.
So I go outside, and walk down to the river, and see the geese, and feed the cute baby goslings,
who joyously come running when they see me, because they know that I bring them goodies.
And I watch the river flow by, and see the clouds floating across the sky, and take in
the whole cityscape... And feel the sun, hot on my skin.
I wouldn't trade that for all of the beer in Portland.
And then there is waking up without a hangover. Waking up without that little voice asking,
"How much longer do you think you can keep on doing this,
and being this sick, before you die?"
(And the answer being, "Oh, about 3 years.")
I just have zero desire to go back to that kind of suffering.
And then there is just the clarity. My mind is clearer than it has been in a lot of years,
and I don't want to give that up and go back to being cloudy-headed, or foggy.
Just one night of drinking would take the edge off of the clarity for a long time.
It has taken 9 years to get this clear, and I think I'll keep it.
Free at last, free at last, thank God almighty, I am free at last.
Have a good day and a good life.
== Orange
you've spent so much time on this slaying of AA. I'm fascinated to hear your solution.
Hello Alex,
We have talked many times about what works, and what has helped people to quit
drinking or drugging.
Here is a list, and
here is another.
But please note that there is no magic "solution".
The idea that there is a "solution"
(Bill Wilson's word) is a myth that A.A. has been spreading for 70 years now:
"Just do these 'spiritual' Steps, and 'Work A Stong Program',
and Hey Presto-Chango! Abra-Cadabra! You will quit drinking."
But the truth is that you really have to quit drinking yourself. Nobody can or will
do it for you.
But, of course, then they say, "You have to do all of the work yourself. The Program won't
do it for you. The reason that the Steps didn't work is because you didn't thoroughly
follow our Path."
So A.A. doesn't really offer a solution either. The idea that A.A. has "a Program"
that "works" is just a bait-and-switch trick:
Have a good day.
== Orange
Based on your writings on your website, you will do your best to shoot this email to pieces and be on with your day. You don't know what you're talking about. The problem with AA isn't that the 12 Steps don't work, it's that people don't do any of them. I agree completely that people come in and out and relapse all the time. These are the people who didn't do any of the work involved. I have sponsored several people and lead them through the work of the 12 Steps and had a %100 success rate. Every single person that went through all 12 Steps and did them thoroughly are still clean and sober today. Every single one. The only people that relapsed are the ones who came in, asked me to sponsor them, I tell them what to do, then they don't do any of it. You're a narrow minded fool, I don't like you personally. Your examples are (what I could force myself to read) are over-simplified and just plain stupid. Just because the court system pumps somebody through AA who doesn't even want to be there and they don't magically get sober after one meeting, doesn't give you the right to spew idiocy on your crappy website. Get bent, your writing sucks. Sincerely, Ryan W, hard core heroin addict clean for 6 years thanks to God and the Steps.
Hello Ryan,
Congratulations on your 6 years off of heroin. That is good. I hope you stay with it.
Now, about your claim that
"The problem with AA isn't that the 12 Steps don't work, it's that people don't do any of them."
Wow. There seems to be a strong echo in here. The same subject came up in the previous
letter,
here.
The problem is, even if you do the Steps, you still don't get cured. It's a bait-and-switch
trick:
First a cure, and then no cure.
First, the story is that the Twelve Steps will work and make you quit drinking or drugging, and then you have to
quit drinking and drugging to "Work The Steps" properly.
Your insistence that people must "Work the Steps" properly, or else, makes it another
bait-and-switch trick, too:
First, they will tell you that the Twelve Steps are
only suggested as a program of recovery, but then you hear
the slogan "Work The Steps Or Die".
And what about all of the people who faithfully work the steps and then get so depressed that
they commit suicide? Like
this story.
It is good that you have several sponsees that have quit heroin. But such anecdotal
evidence does not in any way prove or even indicate that doing the 12 Steps to
Frank Buchman's religion actually cause people to quit addictions.
Your story just proves that you were able to collect half a dozen people who
really wanted to quit heroin — people who were willing to do just about
any silly thing to succeed in quitting
— people who were willing to "go to any length" to succeed.
Those are the people who are highly motivated to quit and stay quit, so
of course they did the best.
What about the judge telling them that he would put them back in prison if they
didn't stay clean? Don't you think that had something to do with it?
What about marriages saved, or children reclaimed?
What about the expense of a drug habit, and the shame, and nightmarish junkie
environment?
What about the desire to not die that way?
That's the problem with such claims that the 12 Steps work. You are ignoring all
of the other facts, and just trying to give the credit for successes to the 12 Steps.
You are also ignoring the obvious fact that when the other people decided to go back to
heroin, they didn't do the steps any more. And you then complained that they
weren't doing the Step work right.
Then you convinced yourself that they went back to heroin because they didn't work the Steps,
which is reversing the cause-and-effect chain.
Oh, and there is one other big hole in your logic: You never counted those junkies who successfully
kicked the habit without any 12-Step nonsense.
There are lots of them — more than the number of junkies who quit with the 12-Step program.
But you are ignoring them. They prove that the 12-Step hocus-pocus routine is unnecessary.
Now, you accused me of simple-mindedness. I have just one simple question for you:
Can you explain how doing
the strange practices of Frank Buchman's pro-Nazi cult
will cause junkies to quit shooting heroin?
Oh well, have a good day anyway.
== Orange
Date: Thu, May 27, 2010 8:02 pm
You're the most full of shit person I've ever heard. Seriously dude, get a life.
Date: Fri, May 28, 2010 10:01 am (answered 31 May 2010) okay I read your bullshit. Wow, I must be really lucky to be able to pick out the people who "really wanted" to get clean or the ones who would have done it anyway, and it's a really strange coincidence that the ones who did get clean just happen to be the ones who did the work.
Hello again, Ryan,
No, you weren't "lucky". You said that a bunch of your sponsees
went back to shooting smack. Only the determined, motivated, abstainers
remained to be your faithful sponsees, doing the Steps and parrotting
the slogans. Luck had nothing to do with it.
Jesus, you must be one of those dickless liberals sitting around in their mom's basement thinking they're smart. Bait and switch? You really are an idiot. We don't tell anybody they're cured, we tell them they have a daily reprive based on the fact that they change their actions. People like you are why we have a Communist for president. Well, now I guess we know where you are coming from. You're unbelievably stupid. I'm not angry, I'm actually stunned that somebody like you actually gets to state their opinion, it's that weak. Yes, isn't is a shame that America has Freedom of Speech? But I'm sure that you Tea-Baggers will fix that as soon as you can. Fuckin' loser! What's next for you? Going after the Salvation Army for Bait and Switch to bums? First you can get a job, but then you can't because you didn't do anything we asked you to do! You're so fuckin' weak I can't even describe it. And yes, I guarantee I'm more educated and more intelligent than your dumbass, so get off your little soapbox and find something better to do with your time like eat a box of detergent.
You really have a thing for that
Bait-And-Switch page, don't you?
You keep mentioning it. Apparently, you know that there is some truth there, and that
bothers you.
While you are being so "educated", you still have not presented any actual facts, like
the A.A. or N.A. success rates, or failure rates, or suicide rates, or drop-out rates.
Nor have you explained how doing the practices of Frank Buchman's old pro-Nazi Oxford Group
cult religion will get junkies to quit shooting heroin.
Oh well, have a good day anyway.
Date: Wed, June 23, 2010 8:07 pm (answered 2 July 2010) Jesus, leave me alone you fukin' loser. You should really get a life you pathetic piece of shit. Post that on your weak ass site. Way to ride on the back of something legitimate to get noticed dumbass.
Date: Thu, June 24, 2010 5:29 am ha ha, your response was totally weak, you don't have an explanation for what I said at all. You just made yourself look like the idiot you are. Keep hiding "Orange" or you might have to answer for your lies.
Even when I was seven and had just heard about AA, I always felt there was something... off about it. Something that made me uncomfortable and edgy, even though I've never known someone who has gone (or spoken about it). I always chalked it up to being unable to accept that there was nothing religious about a "Higher Power"*, but now I'm fairly sure that it was an innate intuition about what is safe and what is not. Thank you for the website, it's very enlightening. Albeit long. I'm going to have to spend the next few days/weeks reading through it all. *I've never understood the atheist cop-out of "use the person you want to be as a Higher Power". I can't comprehend it. Why would I bother to envision the person I want to be telling me what to do, when I can try immediately to be me now? And what happens if my standards change? Some days I fancy an enigmatic mystique, and some days I feel like a raging warrior... I can't give myself a box and still be free. Change is central to who and what I am. Also, I'm pantheist pagan. What "higher power" do I have? The gods I believe in are individuals with a special connection to and power with/through some force of nature. I've always thought that if you're trying to subjugate yourself and your mind and your will to anything, you immediately have a huge unhealthy problem on your hands.
Hello Em Dot,
Thanks for the letter. I have to agree. And who wants to live in a box? No fun.
No thanks.
Oh, and the line,
"use the person you want to be as a Higher Power"
is especially interesting because Bill Wilson raved endlessly
about how we can't be God, and we have to "stop playing God".
And Ernest Kurtz wrote a book that is worshipped in 12-Step circles, titled
"Not God".
And Wilson's indoctrinated followers continue to incant the slogan —
So I guess your Higher Self can't be your Higher Power.
Oh well, have a good day anyway.
== Orange
What's your story? Why fo you hate AA? — Zach
Hi Zach,
Here's
the list.
Have a good day.
== Orange
Do you realise how many thousands (if not millions) of lives have been saved by AA? Do you realise how many people you may have killed by putting them off seeling the help they may have needed thro AA by your irresponsible paper? Did youever read 'Emotional sobriety' written by Bill in which he admits after 21 years he is only just beginning to realise the humility required for good living. Are you a saint yourself?
Hello Kate,
Here we go again. A.A. has not saved millions of lives. In fact, the number is so close to zero
that A.A. actually kills more people than it saves.
I have answered that grandiose false claim so many times that I'll just point you at some of
the previous answers:
Then, your next line was:
"Do you realise how many people you may have killed by putting them off seeling the
help they may have needed thro AA by your irresponsible paper?"
Wow. You are repeating all of the standard A.A. lines, aren't you? Not an original thought in
there anywhere.
Again, since A.A. kills more people than it saves, warning people about A.A. is not killing them.
And again, I've answered that line so many times that I will point you at the list,
'Please realize that your "need" to defame AA may literally kill.'
Bill's "Emotional Sobriety"? You've got to be joking. Bill Wilson
was a screaming raving lunatic, who tried to minimize and deny his insane behavior
by saying that he was going on "emotional benders".
Bill Wilson wrote that Al-Anon Family Group members spoke at the
Alcoholics Anonymous 20th Anniversary convention,
parroting Bill's teachings like this:
Humility had nothing to do with it. It wasn't a matter of humility; it was a matter of
a narcissistic
personality disorder with delusions of grandeur.
The self-pitying Bill Wilson claimed that he was "damaged" by
his wife Lois calling him a drunken sot.
So Bill continued to throw screaming temper tantrums to get his own way.
No, I'm not a saint, but I'm much better than Bill.
Have a good day.
== Orange
Date: Sun, June 13, 2010 11:28 pm (answered 24 June 2010) Ah bless you . Think you need to get a job...............
Nothing like a little
Stepper condescension, huh?
They teach that in A.A., right?
Of course I already have a job, and it's the job you wish I wasn't doing.
Have a good day now.
== Orange
[The story of Carmen continues here.]
"My name is Jaime Banks and I was the victim of coerced 12-Step "treatment" at a Salvation Army "rehabilitation" program in Sarasota, Florida. The following poem is a testament to the emotions I experienced following the realization that I was being forced into a cult. It is also indicative of my general woe over mental health and substance hyper-use issues, and how both are addressed in contemporary America. In addition to forced "treatment", I also spent a short amount of time in jail, and a lot of time on probation, due to my use of cannabis. All of these factors have made indelible impact upon my psyche.
Sincerely: Your Friend in Opposing the 12-Step Cult, Jaime Banks"
Hello Jaime,
Thanks for the letter. It says a lot. I hope you do write more.
So have a good day now.
== Orange
I have seen throughout the Internet your bashing of AA with facts you deem as being important by obscure individuals who as they say ( birds of a feather flock together ) . I have been sober in the Fellowship Of Alcoholics Anonymous for 26 years now. I work a simple program of recovery based on the Book Alcoholics Anonymous. I have sponsored men who come into AA and when they they follow the instructions outlined in the book Alcoholics Anonymous, they stay sober and live productive lives NO LONGER living in a life of DIS-EASE from the effects of addictions. The 75% expressed in the Big Book convey to me that when I follow the instructions I am happier, more joyous and freer than I was was when I was in the bondage's of my addictions The percentages you spout are nothing more than generalizations of information that can be twisted in any pretzel shape you wish. I believe what you attempting ( and attempting is giving you way to much credit ) is to put down thru your own prejudices ( for whatever reason ...your issues ) some thing that has saved millions of lives and really asked for nothing in return except to do what we do ANONYMOUSLY, you are trying to compare apples and oranges ( no pun intended ) A spiritual program of recovery with a bunch of numbers and biased opinions. All you have to do is look and listen in AA who has saved people lives and the change in the Fellowship because most people are like sheep, if they don't want to do something and they hear something that fits into their agenda of AVOIDING what is going in their lives ,they will buy it. My experience is that if I come into AA do the simple things suggested in the Book, I will have a change in attitudes and actions which will allow me to recovery from MY seemingly hopeless state of mind and body I came here with 26 years ago Recovered Alcoholic Rick M.
Hello Rick,
Thank you for the letter.
It's funny that you believe "the 75% expressed in the Big Book",
and then complain that "The
percentages you spout are nothing more than generalizations of information".
You have it exactly backwards. But that is a common cult characteristic —
Denial of the truth. Reversal of reality.
Bill Wilson was flat-out lying when he made up that "75% recovered" number.
Specifically, he was lying with qualifiers. Remember the words that came before
the 75% number?
What Bill Wilson really wrote in 1955, in the Foreword to the Second Edition
of the Big Book, page XX, was:
The truth is that very few alcoholics qualified — in Bill's mind — as "came to A.A. and really tried".
A.A. had a terrible failure rate, and Bill hid the truth by
lying with qualifiers.
Everybody from Bill's secretary Nell Wing to Lois Wilson's secretary Francis Hartigan
reported that A.A.
really had a success rate that was only five percent, but Bill Wilson
wrote "75%" in the Big Book. He was lying to make his cult sound better.
That whole paragraph is just loaded with weasle words. "Began to return" is another weasle.
"Began to return"? Either they really did return, or they didn't. Well, they didn't.
And how could Bill Wilson have possibly kept track of "thousands" of nameless "anonymous"
people who only came to one or two
A.A. meetings, and didn't like what they saw, and left, only to "begin to return" years later?
The answer is, Bill didn't have a computer, and Bill did not keep track of them, so Bill could
not compute that "about two out of three — began to return as time passed."
Bill was just lying again.
I have discussed the fraud in that quote before,
here.
And A.A. has not saved millions, either. The previous letter made the same false claim,
so I'll refer you to that discussion,
here.
The reason that I express the opinions that I do is because of the facts. The truth is
that
A.A. is a failure as a cure for alcoholism.
It is merely
a successful cult that fools millions,
just the same as Scientology.
It is not spiritual to lie to sick people about how well a suggested cure really works.
Such behavior is despicable. Alcoholics Anonymous is not a spiritual organization.
Oh well, have a good day anyway.
== Orange
Date: Thu, May 27, 2010 8:23 pm (answered 31 May 2010) Thank you for reply. I am not going to argue about something that I have seen work time after time. I was a product of medical model therapy and I could not stay clean & sober. As a member of the so-called cult you speak of ,I have been able to put together a life I could not have dreamed of. As for the 75% I have seen it in my AA lifetime, that is a very accurate figure. BTW as someone who has been a part of something and found it wanting as in your personal case I would question who in fact has a closed mind to all principles. As you well know ," there is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail keep a man in everlasting ignorance — that principle is contempt prior to investigation Namasté. May you walk your journey in peace and harmony.
Hello Rick,
It is good that you quit drinking alcohol. That really improves your life, doesn't it?
You are still just assuming a cause-and-affect relationship where none exists.
So you thought about quitting drinking twice. You gave it a half-hearted attempt the
first time, and that didn't work. So you got serious about it and really did it on the
second attempt. So what? That is the story of millions of people. Most people do it that way.
That has nothing to do with whether you were trying "a medical model" or a cult religion model.
Assuming that the medical model did not work, but A.A. did, is two logical errors:
The proper way to figure out whether a treatment for a disease
really works is clinical tests, like
Randomized Longitudinal Controlled Studies.
Anecdotal evidence is completely unreliable, and totally worthless.
And that 75% success rate was just one of Bill Wilson's brazen lies. He was
Lying with Qualifiers,
trying to fool people into thinking that A.A. really worked.
We just talked about that. You claim that you see a 75% success rate,
but you don't say what qualifiers you are using to get that success rate,
like "who really tried", or "who thoroughly followed our path".
What is the success rate when you take all of the qualifiers off of
the sentence?
What success rate do you get with ALL of the alcoholic newcomers in general?
How about this question:
Out of each 1000 newcomers to A.A., how many will pick up a one-year
sobriety medallion a year later?
Parrotting
the "contempt before investigation" misquote
in defense of ineffective cult religion quackery is really disingenuous.
By the way, I have thoroughly examined and investigated Alcoholics
Anonymous and it's "cure", or "non-cure, but one-day reprieve", and found it wanting.
I have contempt after investigation.
Have a good day.
== Orange
wow, allot of work just to talk about something you you have never experienced.
Hello Karl,
What is it you think I have not experienced?
Alcohol abuse and alcohol addiction? Been there, done that.
Recovery? Been there and done that too.
Cult "spirituality"? Been there and tried that one too. Not my cup of tea.
Have a good day now.
== Orange
you for your site. I first attended an AA meeting in 1981. Fortunately for me, someone belched over purposefully and at great length during the Lord's prayer. It took me about 7 more years of AA meetings before I found a group in Los Angeles, We Agnostics. There I met Ernie, who burned the Big Book in disgust after a first reading. And Steve who went through and re-wrote his (a trick I hear Thomas Jefferson did with his bible). We Agnostics was (and still is) an AA group, but I think you need a big city to get that lucky. Two of the members went to Portland. One quit going to AA, the other started a meeting called Rebellion Dogs. Over these past 29 years, I've come to know lots of people who stopped drinking on their own, and who have remained sober after they stopped going to AA meetings. I've got 22 years, and AA did not do shit for me until I found a group of people who 1) did not believe in god (or were at least ambivalent) and 2) did not lie about how fucking wonderful sobriety was. Your site is hysterical except where the awfulness of AA is too much. Thanks again.
Hi Sherril,
Thanks for the letter and the compliments.
And congratulations on all of your years of sobriety. Why you would be one of
the High Holy Old-Timers, if you weren't such a heretic... :-)
I'm in Portland, and never heard of the Rebellion Dogs group. I'll have
to keep my ears open, and maybe I'll run into them some time.
Have a good day now.
== Orange
Dear Mr Orange I came across your website, and believe I found a mistake in your interpretation of the document labelled "5M/12-90/TC" on the page http://www.orange-papers.info/orange-effectiveness.html#AA_dropouts As I read the document the percentages given are "the proportion of those who are in their first year who are within their nth month". That is, out of 100 people who have been in AA for less than a year, 19 have been there less than a month, 13 between 1 and 2 months etc. Thus, the correct number for "one year success rate" is around 26% (5/19), not 5%. I will agree that this is not clear from the graph itself, but if you read the accompanying text, the above interpretation is the only one making sense. I do believe you have some valid points, and hope you will make corrections to your site to reflect the above. Best regards,
Nis J.
Hello Nis,
Thank you for the letter. I agree with your first statement, but not the second.
That is, other people and I originally interpreted that chart as a longitudinal study,
tracking how long people remained in A.A. But it was not a longitudinal study, something done over time.
It was just an easy-to-do one-day snapshot picture of the membership with less than
a year of membership.
But that snapshot still revealed a huge dropout rate. Look at the further discussion
of that chart where somone in the New York A.A. reinterpreted the chart, and then
I reinterpreted it again,
here
No way does that chart of numbers indicate that 26% of the newcomers are still around
at the one-year point. Either way you look at the numbers (correctly), they still reveal
a high dropout rate.
And then there is the corroborating evidence. All of the other people who have studied the
problem and given numbers also reported the same five percent retention rate (which also happens
to be
the normal rate
of spontaneous remission in alcoholics):
And last but not least, you have your own eyes. If you have been going to A.A. meetings for
very long, you know about the revolving-door problem.
They come in, they go out, they come in, they go out. If you like the looks of some newcomers,
you had better get to know them fast, because they probably won't be around for very long.
Have a good day now.
== Orange
From: Nis J. Dear Mr Orange While you agree that your original interpretation was wrong, it is still up there on your website as the first bit of analysis of that report. You refute your critics by introducing an out-of-nowhere statistic of "first days" attenders, which by coincidence gives the same retention rate as in your original analysis. This suggests to me that you are constitutionally incapable of being honest, and I will not try to change your mind.
Yours,
Hello Nis,
I have been reluctant to erase
the first
interpretation,
because it has historical
relevance, and has been discussed by both sides many times.
The following
interpretation by the New York A.A. group is
based on it too, and that response would become
confusing and irrelevant without the context of the first interpretation.
Still, I suppose I should put an explanatory note there, saying that I have
gradually come to the conclusion that the study is a one-day snapshot.
I'll add it to my list of 1000 things to do.
What you are overlooking is the fact that the
second way of
interpreting the chart
makes the results worse, not better. So it wasn't necessary
for me to go all through my writings and change all of
the "5% retention rate" statements in my web site
as I gradually came to the conclusion that the study was a
cheap-and-easy one-day snap-shot of the
newcomers, rather than a longitudinal study.
What is worse about the one-day snap-shot interpretation is the
fact that a one-day survey done only once every three years, when the
triennial surveys are conducted, will not count the immense number of
A.A. beginners who only came to a few A.A. meetings and were appalled
by what they saw, and walked out and didn't come back.
When you include them in the count, the retention rate is way below 5%.
And then of course we have
all of
the historical quotes
from Bill Wilson and the founders' secretaries, declaring that they
had a disastrous retention rate then too, no better than 5%, and often
worse.
Have a good day.
== Orange
After 20 years of being in AA, I couldn't agree more with nearly everything you've written. Oh the stories I could tell too. It wears me out even thinking of trying to tell you. I just wanted to see if this email worked or not and to tell you to keep up the good work. Someone should make a real movie out of what AA is really like, I'd love to contribute to that script. Please don't list my email address or name, truly because of the fear that AA engenders in people.
Hi. Your messages are coming through just fine, and I'll answer them
just as soon as I'm set up again.
Have a good day.
== Orange
Date: Mon, April 12, 2010 9:21 pm I just sent you a previous email, but in reading your last letter, I'm trying to figure out how in the world you are homeless if you are. You should at least be making a mint out of having the Orange Papers turned into a book. Once again, please don't list my name or email.....
Date: Tue, April 13, 2010 1:06 am (answered 26 May 2010) Check out this insane woman's site..... http://samsara.ihostyou.com/alcoholics-drug-addicts-in-alcoholics-anonymous/#comment-34937 Once again...just list me as anonymous, no email, name, etc.
Hello again, anonymous,
It's easy to be homeless. All that you need is a new property management corporation to
take over the building that you live in and decide to crack the whip and get the
tenants in line with lots of new rules and threats. And I was gone.
I was not about to pay money to live under such conditions.
I hired a crew with a truck
and moved all of my stuff to a storage locker.
And then, out of sheer vindictiveness, the manageress declared that she had a new rule:
Tenants were no longer allowed to load trucks at the truck loading area in the garage,
which is conveniently located directly across from the elevator.
No, I had to hand-carry everything that I owned through the lobby to the street out front,
where we had to park the truck in a metered parking space, when we could find one.
That tells you what kind of people they are — torturing an elderly disabled veteran
at Christmas because she was angry that I was moving out,
rather than obeying her orders, which I suppose messed up
her averages for occupancy and keeping tenants.
It took four days to get everything packed and out that way. And one of those four days,
the manageress allowed incoming tenants to unload their truck in the truck loading
area. So much for the new rule.
That was Pinnacle Property Management who did that. They are also on the Internet.
But now I have finally found a much better place to live.
The story is
here and
here and
here.
I'll check out that link.
Have a good day now.
== Orange
Last updated 19 January 2013. |