Date: Tue, February 22, 2011 10:41 am (answered 24 February 2011) Hello again Orange!! I only have one class this semester.... can you tell? Your latest wisdom caught my eye.
What you think you are tends to be what you will become. Convincing kids that they are addicts can make them into addicts. Convincing them that they are low, vile, selfish sinners without any morality can make them behave like that. I believe this is what Schaler identified as the "Self Fulfilling Prophecy. Here is an excerpt from a paper I wrote a few years back. You probably have his work archived.... in fact I may have found it there... but anyway it is so very important to share, and I am glad you brought it to our attention once again.
Jeffrey Schaler's (1996) belief which states, "Teaching that addiction is a disease creates a self-fulfilling prophecy." In addition Schaler (1996) writes, "When you teach people that they are powerless, they will act in a powerless way." The idea of admitting that one has no control over a chemical substance which they ingest or put into their body can eventually lead to feelings of helplessness. AA calls this powerlessness. AA immediately releases an alcohol abuser of responsibility and self-control in the first step of the Alcoholics Anonymous 12 Step Program. The DEVIL made me do it... I am a sinner! I need redemption! I was not a teenager when I was thrown to the wolves in AA, but I was close enough, I had just turned 22. I am going to be 49 in a month, I left AA a little over 3 years ago. I would hope that just ONE teen or young adult will read this letter.... to save them from the AA hell I lived for so long.... It is truly amazing how the "Self Fulfilling Prophecy" works, especially when it is introduced to the minds of vulnerable, scared and impressionable young people. Time to stop the madness!! Thanks again Orange... you are a valuable source of inspiration AND information!! Renee
Hi again, Renee,
Thanks for the letter and the compliments. I didn't know that Jeffrey Schaler had written
that, so thanks for the note. Of course I couldn't agree more.
And it was actually Maia Szalavitz who brought up the subject, in a TIME magazine article,
here.
Have a good day now.
== Orange
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You're Angry
ADDICTION RECOVERY SERVICES
So?
How does me being angry or not angry change the A.A. failure rate?
How does my "anger" affect the failure rate at your treatment center?
Does your "service" amount to anything more than parrotting
the delusional sermons of William Griffith Wilson?
Oh well, have a good day anyway.
== Orange
Hello again, Ctmjon,
Thanks for the article. I find that article interesting from several angles.
The author is assuming that A.A. works, or used to work. He thinks that watering down
A.A. with "the wrong people" is making alcoholics die.
I agree that alcoholics are dying, but it isn't because A.A. is less
effective now than it used to be. A.A. was never effective. The author
is perpetuating the myth that A.A. was great in the good old days, and
it is getting diluted now.
A.A. was just as much a failure in the "good old days" as it is now. I know that
Bill Wilson bragged in the Big Book
about how great his miraculous new invention was,
and how many alcoholics it was saving, but that was just Bill's bragging, backed up by
zero real facts or statistics or records.
And Bill Wilson actually told the opposite story at Dr. Bob's memorial service.
There, Bill bragged about what long-suffering saints he and Dr. Bob were,
and how hard they had to work to get Alcoholics Anonymous started:
Bill Wilson also bragged,
So whether A.A. was a fantastic success — the greatest spiritual
and medical discovery of the 20th Century,
or a dismal failure with a success rate that was close to zero,
depended on whether Bill Wilson wanted to brag about how brilliant
his invention was, or brag about how hard he had to work to save all
of those worthless alcoholics.
Have a good day.
== Orange
Dear Agent Orange, I'm sorry my ideas stick in your craw. I guess the point I'm really trying to get across in my earlier letters about Tibet, but not very sucessfully is if it is the public will of the Tibetan people for the return of the Dali Lama, then by all means return him, but I don't see that I see people supporting the Dali Lama on the basis that he is not Communist China. You are correct their is no way to actually predict the future with absolute certainty. (The movie was called The Minority Report. You are correct the system did not work very well in the movie. It worked a little bit better in the short story by Phillip K. Dick. By the way isn't that an example of arguing by allegory) Never the less you have try to make the best prediction you can based on the available information. I have found no indication one way or the other in the Dali Lama's writing about how he intends to rule, for example fiscal policy, healthcare, education, etc. I also find no indication in his writing that he intends to include the people in his government. Thus based on the available information that he will do none of these things. As for the argument that I am an imperialist trying to enforce my way of life on others, I would ask you why do you even have the Free Tibet banner. You see by the same logic you could say their is nothing wrong with the way China treats Tibet, because well thats there culture, and we shouldn't try to enforce our values on them. Unfortunately the "Not enforcing our values on other people", can be used as an excuse for moral cowardice to let attrocities occur. Consent of the governed is a basic value/morale/religious tennet call it what you wish that is prerequisite for all governments. Ofcourse on the opposite end of the spectrum (as you noted) you have the problem of tyranny against soveriegn nations. So in balancing the values of respecting the soveriegnty of foreign nations and consent of the governed I would argue that an unqualified support of the Dali Lama is wrong, or at the very least not the optimum way t o free Tibet. On the NPR issues. First technically the F-35 joint strike fighter isn't pork barrell spending. Federal funding is being used on a federal military platform that will be deployed through out the entire country and used to enforce federal policy through out the world. Pork barrell spending would be like using federal funding to build a state highway or bridge. Never the less on the issue of funding the F-35 joint strike fighter your preaching to the converted. If we can't afford it and the boys in blue/green don't want it, then we shouldn't buy it. On the issue of corrupt politicians, you forgot to mention recent supreme court rulings granting corporations the constitutional rights as citizens, the ongoing issues with campaign finance reform, and how lobbyists can unduly influence politicians. Even as we speak I'm listening to a radio broadcast about how the governor of Wisconsin wants to recind all collective barganning power of teachers unions. Then theres the deficit. Then theres the two wars still being waged, one of then started under at the very least questionable pretences. I don't think my countrys way of life is superior. I'm very aware that my country has serious issues, and its going to take a long time to solve them. They are all brillian reasons why we should fix our own problems. They are not reasons why I should support the Dali Lama, if I suspect that he will become a totalitarian dictator. Furthermore I'm also listening to NPR about the recent uprisings in Tunisia and Egypt and about the current uprisings in Bahrain and Libya. Now I don't know what kind of governments are going to rise from the ashes. More than likely they will not be pro-American governments (due to the fact that we have supported a great many monarchs and dicators in the Middle East all in the name of "Not enforcing our values on other people") However these will be governments that have the concent of the governed which is more than the Chinese regime in Tibet can say, and more than the Dali Lama can say. Just to shake things up I included a link that is actually about alcoholism and addiction. It is an argument by Stanton Peele asserting that "The kind of clear-cut model of the genetic sources of alcoholism perceived by the public and presented in popular tracts does not accurately reflect the state of knowledge in this area. No persuasive genetic mechanism has been proposed to account for accumulated data about alcoholic behavior, social differences in alcoholism rates or the unfolding of the disease. Biological findings about the offspring of alcoholics have been inconsistent and grounds exist to challenge the notion of an enhanced genetic liability for alcoholism that has been accepted wisdom for the last decade. Genuine attempts to forge data and theory into genetic models have been limited to men alcoholics and to a minority of severely afflicted alcoholics with other special characteristics. However, several investigators dispute the idea of a special type of inherited alcoholism affecting only such groups. Even for these populations, balanced genetic models leave room for the substantial impact of environmental, social and individual factors (including personal values and intentions) so that drinking to excess can only be predicted within a complex, multivariate framework. The denial of this complexity in some quarters obscures what has been discovered through genetically oriented research and has dangerous consequences for prevention and treatment policies.' http://www.peele.net/lib/genetics.html Finally I hope my remarks did not upset you. With few exceptions (such as Tibet), I agree with the content of your website. Additionally even if I didn't my aim was for reasoned debate about differing opinions rather than acrimony. Regardless of what you think of my opinions I hope we can accomplish that much.
With Much Respect and Appreciation, P.S. Please do not post my e-mail address
Hello again, "No one of any importance",
I'm not upset. To answer your points:
Then, the rumor is that, when the Dalai Lama dies,
the Chinese authorities will pretend to find the next
reincarnation of the Dalai Lama, somebody of their choice.
I was just hearing that on a program about Tibet on Public Television.
I wish I could remember what the show was.
Are you aware of the fact that Tibet traditions and scriptures predicted that this Dalai Lama
would be the last one?
The big difference is that the Tibetan people like the Dalai Lama. They don't like the
Chinese Army killing them and blowing up their monasteries. Surely you can see that difference.
Having a Dalai Lama is the Tibetan culture. Having the Chinese Army killing them is not
their culture, or their cherished traditions.
And did you catch the news that there is a clause in the
Wisconsin budget bill that allows the governor to sell the state's
electric generation plants to his rich cronies in a no-bid sale?
It's massive corruption, masked as "privatization".
A researcher who found a gene for the tendency to abuse alcohol
stated that there is evidence that
"A Functional Neuropeptide Y Leu7Pro Polymorphism [is] Associated
With Alcohol Dependence in a Large Population Sample From the United
States". He explained it this way:
I like that careful terminology:
Modulates the risk for, not causes, alcohol dependence.
Having the gene increases your odds for having a problem with alcohol, but does not
cause you to drink, and it does not make you an alcoholic.
Have a good day now.
== Orange
Hello A. (Agent? Alan?) Orange = Thanks to your research I have come away even more amazed and in awe of the recovery program presented in both The Big Book and The Twelve and Twelve. It's clear that Bill Wilson though highly intelligent and charismatic was a deeply flawed human being who it appears didn't work a very solid AA program. While it was definitely better for himself and anyone his life might touch that he was no longer a raging drunk, the selfish, self-centered, self-seeking behaviors you speak to are clearly nothing to emulate and caused much harm. No doubt the depression that plagued him was mostly of his own making and his refusal to consistently practice what he espoused. What amazes me is that a program such as AA which has not only helped millions to stop drinking (not to mention the myriad spin-offs that deal with drugs, food, sex, gambling, etc.) but to live more useful lives was spawned by such a flawed human being. They ought to make a movie out of that...oh, wait, as you said, they did. For those who sincerely practice this program which as you probably know encourages rigorous self honesty, consistent self searching of human failings, taking personal responsibility, confession to a trusted person, asking for God's help, and then passing the program to others seeking relief from their alcoholism, the quality of their lives change dramatically over time. I'm sad that you see it as simply a cult. Best to you and hope where you reside, namely the space between your ears, is mostly a good place to be...MM P.S. I just wanted to mention that when I hit my knees, though grateful that Bill Wilson helped to create this program, he is not to whom I pray.
Hello MS,
Thanks for the letter.
You have obviously chosen to believe whatever you wish to believe, no matter what the facts may be.
But I do have to correct one grossly wrong statement:
There is no truth to that statement. Alcoholics Anonymous has not "helped millions" to stop
drinking. I know that the A.A. true believers won't stop repeating that lie, but it
is still a lie.
A.A. does not even have two million members worldwide, never mind two million sober.
The truth is, there are only a few hundred thousand hard-core
permanent A.A. members, and the rest is just churn. The churn is those people who come for a little while,
and don't like what they see, and leave. Then more come, or are sentenced by a judge, and
then they leave as soon as they can. Then more come, and don't like what they see, and then they leave.
You can read more about the A.A. churn rate
here.
Alcoholics Anonymous is no good at sobering up alcoholics.
The real A.A. cure rate is approximately zero.
(Click on that link.)
Those few A.A. members who did quit drinking did so by using their own God-given will power, not by doing
the strange occult practices of Frank Buchman that are embodied in the 12 Steps.
A.A. just steals the credit from a few people who were going to quit drinking anyway.
The 12 Steps are equally useless for
fixing problems with drugs, food, sex, gambling, or etc.
There is nothing amazing about the fact that a mentally ill criminal like Bill Wilson was
able to foist such a fraud on sick people.
Con artists are a dime a dozen. And as P. T. Barnum said, "There is a sucker born every minute."
Have a good day.
== Orange
I read with interest your paper on The Effectiveness of the Twelve- Step Treatment. I am sober now 21 1/2 years and I do not take issue with your statistics but what do you think is the best alternative to going to AA meetings? Jack B.
Hello Jack,
Thank you for the letter, and congratulations on your sobriety.
And thanks for a great question. The answer is, "The best alternative to going to A.A. meetings
is to quit drinking."
That is not a flippant answer. Most of the people who go to A.A. meetings do not quit drinking.
They go to A.A. meetings, for months or years, but they don't quit drinking.
A much better alternative is to quit drinking and not go to A.A. meetings.
(And that is the path that I have followed for the last 10 years.)
Now if you really want a meeting or a formal organization, there are several alternatives
like SMART, SOS, Lifering, or WFS. And there are a variety of techniques that may help
someone. I discussed all of that a little while ago here:
How did you get to where you are?
Have a good day and a good life.
== Orange
[More gosling photos below, here.]
Ever run across Dr. Paul Earley? No, I don't recall having heard of him.
Date: Tue, February 22, 2011 5:36 pm Well, agent Orange, Earley is a devoted disciple of the great Talbott, and currently medical director of Talbott Recovery in Atlanta... the beat goes on
Date: Tue, February 22, 2011 5:54 pm (answered 25 February 2011) Forgive an old man...your writings revived old wounds...perhaps some scars are best left undisturbed after all these years... Sent from my iPad
Hello again, Peter,
Thanks for the information. I didn't know that the Talbott
"treatment center" was still in business.
That bears investigating.
Have a good day now.
== Orange
Wow! You definitely hit the nail on the head! I had some really creepy times at AA and a boarding school I was forced to go to as a teen (A Synanon offspring) called CEDU. I could write a book about that place. Went to AA for awhile last year, had a creepy obsessive sponsor who — Wow — if he's the model for AA then count me out! Also had a very AA devout aunt who ended up losing her life to a Methadone overdose in her late forties. I truly believe she became so obsessed with her "disease" that it ended up consuming her every thought and led her back to drink/drugs. What a waste. The morning after the last time I went out drinking my best friend — also a hardcore AA member — said to me "you have a belly full of booze and head full of AA." I thought, yup, you're right. Now let's get rid of both. So I did. I quit drinking on my own. I began running, enjoying my life, joining normal activity groups, bought a car, and I am finally working my way through grad school. I definitely can't drink. I can go out and get a problem again real quick, but I don't. I use my common sense and the coping skills that I have had since I was child to get through the rough times. So far it has worked great for me. Yes, most AA'ers at this point would be super quick to remind me of the story in the BB about the successful man who quit on his own will only to drink many years later and was dead in a month. Whatever... That can happen to someone in AA as well. One can get hit by a car tomorrow, or god-forbid get diagnosed with cancer. Anyway, very interesting reading. Thanks much! And please redact any identifier if you put this up on your site. It looks like you do that already so thanks!
Hello X,
Okay, you are very anonymous. Thanks for the letter and the compliments.
I am also one of those people who just
cannot drink alcohol. I do fine without it — I sure don't miss being sick and hung-over.
I don't need constant meetings or "a program" to not drink;
I just don't put any alcohol in my mouth because it makes me sick when I do. Problem solved.
So have a good day and a good life now.
== Orange
Orange, Thanks for writing back the last time I contacted you. I've been sober almost three years now and haven't been to a meeting in over two months. Once I realized that I was the one deserving the credit for my sobriety, not AA and those ridiculous steps (which I never did), the need for a meeting seemed entirely unnecessary. And you know what? I don't have any desire to drink, have not ended up in an institution and am not dead! Amazing! Oh, and my sponsor? The one who cared so deeply about me staying sober....Haven't heard a word from him since I quit the meetings. I'd love to tell him that I've never been more "happy, joyous and free," but he would just tell me I couldn't have been a real alcoholic. I now participate in my own program, and I work it very well. It's called, "No steps, no traditions, just don't drink." I highly recommend it. For a long time I have felt a real connection to the following quote and now that I have dropped out of AA, I appreciate it even more and would like to share it with you:
"The man who makes everything that leads to happiness depend upon himself, and not upon other men, has adopted the very best plan for living happily." Keep up your fine work. Have an outstanding day. Tom
Hello Tom,
Thanks for the letter. And of course I couldn't agree more.
Congratulations on your sobriety and your freedom.
Isn't it just so revealing
that your sponsor dropped you like a hot potato as soon as you wouldn't devote your life
to his favorite organization? All of that talk about "Freely giving to others
what was freely given to us" and
"Let us love you until you can love yourself" just suddenly stops.
The silence is deafening.
The fervent desire to save the lives of other people suddenly disappears. Now how is that?
I am reminded of
the same thing in the Oxford Group, 75 years ago:
Oh well, have a good day anyway.
== Orange
Dear A. Orange, I am an ex-Scientologist, I started reading your Cult Testing Questions site and it gave me new insights and better understanding of my involvement in that cult. Thank you! Impressive work, so far I love it! I have a small correction request, in page http://www.orange-papers.info/orange-cult_q0.html you wrote:
"But for only $375,000 or more, Scientology will get rid of those pesky interplanetary cooties for you." Actually this is incorrect. The auditing done to get rid of the BTs is done in 'Solo', that means you audit yourself — or better you audit the entities in your body getting them to leave. So, it would be more correct to write:
"But for only $375,000 or more, Scientology will teach you how to get rid of those pesky interplanetary cooties." or better
"But for only $375,000 or more, Scientology will help you to get rid of those pesky interplanetary cooties." Bye, M.
Hello M.,
Quite right. Thanks for the correction. Yes, now that you mention it,
I recall that those "higher levels" of being an
"Operating Thetan" are "self-audited", which means
that you hold the tin cans and read the E-Meter yourself, and talk to
yourself and convince yourself that you have gotten rid of the ghosts.
Isn't modern high technology wonderful?
Have a good day now.
== Orange
http://www.dlisted.com/node/40966 Charlie may have a point, but he is the WORST person in the world to say that. John M As always, withhold the full name if you would.
Hello again, John,
Yes, isn't this whole Charlie Sheen circus just such a classic example of
getting agreement from people you don't want to be associated with?
It reminds me of the scene in the movie "Close Encounters of the Third Kind"
where the protagonist was trying to describe his experience with a UFO
to Air Force authorities, and he was getting interrupted by a loud-mouthed
raving nutcase who wouldn't stop talking about alien abductions and Bigfoot,
and on and on...
Oh well, have a good day anyway.
== Orange
Unfortunately, I am not Charlie Sheen and I don't know what his email address is. Maybe you could get a written statement from him as a endorsement of sorts. Who knows?
Hello O_o,
Charlie Sheen apparently agrees with me about one thing.
The propaganda trick that you are trying to use is called
The Fallacy of One Similarity.
(Not to mention Sarcasm.)
You are also trying to infer that Charlie Sheen is wrong about everything because he
has a drug problem. That is a standard 12-Step cult characteristic — two of them,
in fact:
Somebody having a drink or drug problem does not invalidate his whole life, and make
him wrong about everything. But you would never know that from listening to Steppers.
Have a good day.
== Orange
Way to go, Charlie.
Hello Ian,
Thanks for the information. Yes, that is such a sad case, isn't it?
I hate to see people self-destructing, no matter whether it's Mel Gibson, or Lindsay Lohan,
or David Hasselhoff, or Glen Campbell, or Nick Nolte, or whomever.
There but for the grace of God go I.
It is still not clear if Sheen was drunk or stoned or neither when
he went on that rant. There is a lot of debate
going on about maybe he is bipolar and was off of his meds, or
maybe he overdosed on benzodiazepine meds, or
maybe he is suffering from serious brain damage from too many years of too many drugs.
Us outsiders have little chance of accurately diagnosing him without some more evidence.
Have a good day.
== Orange
[The story of Carmen continues here.]
Dear Mr/Ms "Orange," Would it be possible for you to post the comments you have received thus far to your article on your analysis of the data supporting the AA 12 step program. I then went to your website and although you state you have received many email messages questioning or rebutting your review, you do not have these comments posted? I am requesting that you do so, since my questions are probably the same as the others you have already received.
Hello Kim,
Thanks for the questions. I post almost all critical letters that I receive.
Start with the first file of letters, here.
You will very soon find letters that criticize me and tell me to read the Big Book
and find out what it's all about, and on and on.
And then there are 224 more files of letters following that first one, and
just about every one of those files of letters contains angry letters that
criticize me and call me a sack of motherfuckers, and declare that I am killing
alcoholics by telling the truth, and things like that.
I have major concerns regarding you inappropriate and down right WRONG interpretation of pharmaceutical clinical studies. Your ignorance with regard to how clinical trials are conducted and data interpreted is so ignorant it makes we question every other conclusion in your "analysis." I know there is a lot of trash on the internet and maybe I should just ignore your website and this article all together. However, we do have an alcoholic in our family and we are encouraging this person to get help and use the tools available- including AA. Assuming I agree with your conclusions (which I do not) here is my question to you, MR/MS ORANGE: If your family member was an alcoholic- what would you do? Hope this person is among the 5% that "spontaneously" recover? Or encourage that individual to seek out all help available?
I do not "interpret"
clinical studies of the
effectiveness of Alcoholics Anonymous.
I simply state the facts that doctors found. You are trying to use the propaganda trick of
Escape Via Relativism
to turn the debate into an argument that is merely one opinion versus another, or
one "interpretation" versus another.
It is not a matter of interpretations. It is a matter of doctors doing controlled studies
and then stating what the results were. My opinion has no part in it. Facts are facts, and
death rates are death rates.
Actually, you are the one who shows no evidence of understanding how clinical tests and controlled
studies are conducted. You wrote:
Tests of the effectiveness of Alcoholics Anonymous treatment are not tests of
pharmaceuticals. Did you just throw that word in there to try to make your rap sound more
impressive?
Furthermore, it isn't me who interprets the data, it is the doctor who conducted the test
and wrote the report. Like when
Dr. Vaillant wrote that the A.A. death rate was "appalling",
that was his interpretation of the data, not mine.
You don't really know anything about clinical tests, do you? Go read this description
of how a doctor or scientist or researcher conducts a
Randomized Longitudinal Controlled Study.
If I had an alcoholic in my family (besides myself), I would recommend that he go to SMART meetings,
and Lifering and SOS if they were in the area. I would also recommend that he read the book
Rational Recovery, and also read a whole bunch of the other books on the
Top 10 reading list. I would also certainly
tell him about all of the suffering that alcohol caused me.
And I would point him to the lists of links where we discussed what works, and what has
helped people,
How did you get to where you are?.
I would not recommend that any sick alcoholics or drug addicts go join
a cult religion that claims to have a great cure for drug and alcohol
problems, but that actually fails to help them. That includes Alcoholics
Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, and Scientology, and Synanon, and Jim Jones's People's Temple
(you know, where they drank the koolaid).
I don't know how you can live with yourself for writing such an incredibly bias and dangerous article.
And there it is again — the standard A.A. put-down:
"Telling the truth about A.A. is doing a great disservice to alcoholics
who are seeking sobriety."
I have a long list of A.A. parrots who keep repeating that attack.
Welcome to the list.
Warmly, Dr. Kim S.
Doctor? Doctor of what? Obviously not medicine. Real doctors know how to read
the results of controlled studies and clinical tests.
And real doctors know the difference between Alcoholics Anonymous and a
pharmaceutical.
Have a good day.
== Orange
Date: Thu, March 3, 2011 4:49 pm (answered 7 March 2011) Happy to be in the list with other the rational people. Sent from my iPhone
Uh, Kim,
That list is not a list of rational people. There is nothing rational about
claiming that we should not tell the truth to sick people.
In fact, it is illegal to not tell the truth about suggested treatments for deadly
diseases or disorders or conditions. Doctors are required by law to do "full disclosure",
accurately informing the patient about the success rate of any suggested treatment,
and the odds of survivial, and the death rate, and any possible complications — everything.
The good, the bad, and the ugly. Everything. So that the patient can then
make an informed choice.
Since you are claiming the title of "Dr.", you should know that.
Have a good day now.
== Orange
[The next letter from Kim_S is here.]
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